Quick Marriage Magic Tune-Up Tip: Admit to yourself that you don’t know the best way for your husband or partner to get something done.
His way and your way may be very different. Acknowledging this is called humility and respect. I used to think (and sometimes still do!) that I knew the best way for my husband to drive, handle paperwork, speak on the phone, dress, parent the children, diet etc. And yet, how silly. Our personalities and natures are so different! So many wasteful arguments came about from this attitude. Now I know better and most of the time (I am human!) do better.
Step in the right direction: Next time you feel like telling your husband or partner what to do and how to do it, ground by feeling your feet on the floor, taking a breath and pausing. Imagine that you have duct tape on your mouth (relationship coach Laura Doyle’s phrase). See how it feels in your body to not give your opinion or advice. Notice what physical sensations and emotions come up for you. Perhaps there is fear, humility, respect, embarrassment, or sadness. Remain with awareness in your body even if there is discomfort. This is a moment of sacred silence in which you are not taking control of the situation, but are just allowing what is. Allowing your partner to just be.
***Do not do this if there is an immediate danger to what your husband is doing or if you have a preference that involves you.
***If strong emotions are triggered, I invite you to schedule your Free Clarity Call and consider purchasing marriage magic healing/coaching sessions. Sometimes it’s just small tweaks that can make huge differences in your relationship! Somatic/Mindbody healing is the way to accomplish this—we get to core emotions and subconscious beliefs, releasing on a somatic level what is not serving you in your relationship. The results are permanent and profound.
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